Check out this video from the New York Times’ “Vows” section, looking at the marriage of Dr. Billy Jones and Mr. Lewis Duckett, who have been together for forty-six years. When Dr. Jones was deployed during the Vietnam War, they wrote every day, using codes to make sure that they wouldn’t be outed. They adopted a child, and today, they’re grandparents.

And now they’re finally married. Congratulations, gentlemen.