Ashley Horne and Candi Cushman of Focus on the Family have the answer!  Unfortunately the video isn’t embeddable, presumably because it’s embarrassing.  The video is about Focus’s “Day of Dialogue,” in which they seek to deflect public attention from the blood all over fundamentalist Christian hands when it comes to the bullying and, all too often, suicides among gay teens.

Anyway, they don’t use the word “hate,” but rather use coded dogwhistles and catch phrases like “God’s plan for sexuality,” and other tripe meant to soothe the brainwashed.